Menopause isn't a "stop button" for intimacy, nor is there any medical rule dictating that you must retire your sex life at a certain age. What truly deserves attention is physical comfort, mutual consent, and watching for warning signs like pain or bleeding.
Many people mistake "can I?" for "is my body physically allowing it?" while treating "how many times a week" as a health benchmark. In reality, sexual desire after menopause varies wildly—it may increase, decrease, or stay the same. There is no single standard for frequency. Prioritizing mutual satisfaction and physical comfort is far more meaningful than trying to chase an arbitrary average.
Ultimately, the goal isn't proving whether you've "still got it," but finding a style of intimacy that fits where your body is right now.
